Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts

Sunday, October 20

Meet Me Over There!


So I’m finally back on the blogging band wagon ~ would you like to come over and say hi?

Vintage style at Lavender & Twill

I’m just a hop, skip and a jump away at Lavender & Twill and while I plan on keeping Depict This! around for a bit longer, I shall take it down eventually.  But not before I re-publish my best posts over on my new blog!

So come and find some old favorites, a fresh new style and pink hair! *gasp*  See ya!  : D

xox,

bonita

P.S. ~ Don’t forget that you can catch me on:

Instagram |  missbjvear
Twitter | bjvear
Pinterest | bjvear
Youtube | Bonita Vear

Friday, May 24

Bye Bye World!

 

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I made a big decision ~ I have decided to cut and eliminate some of the things that I think I have to do to make more time for the things I want to do. 

One of the things that is going to go is my studio ~ BdotDepictions.  I haven’t been doing photography seriously for a least a year now, and paying to keep my studio site up and running when I haven’t sold a single piece of work doesn’t make much sense for me right now. 

Especially when I am not really in a position to be able to do something about the lack of sales ~ i.e., marketing!

In keeping with that, I have decided to put Depict This! away too, so I am putting the blog on hiatus until further notice.  This is mainly so I can focus on finishing the novel I am co-authoring with my sister.  We are really close to finishing our second manuscript {we have finished the first one, but need both finished before we can look at publishing}, but I find that I just don’t have enough motivation to work on it.

Blogging takes all of my writing juice ~ I’m just dry by the time it comes to the novel and I hate that.  I haven’t done any quality work on it for ages…  Yes, I know our new arrival into the family has quite a lot to do with that, but I also know my limitations.  If I want to see our books published, I need to shut shop on the blog temporarily. 

Never fear ~ it’s only for a little while!  I already have a ton of plans for my blogging come back! 

It’s going to involve a complete rebrand ~ new blog, new blog name and everything….  But I can’t tell you any more.

I won’t take Depict This! down; I want to leave the old blog up for a while so that everyone came reference my old posts if they wish too.  I just won’t be updating DT! even though I’ll still be around on Twitter, Instagram{@bjvear}, and Pinterest if you want to check out what I am up to in the mean time. 

xox,

bonita

Friday, October 19

She’ll Be Comin’ ‘round


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It’s taken a lot of thought, but I think I’ve figured out what I want to do blogging wise. 

Everyone has been super supportive, and I’ve been really glad to hear from you, but it’s actually a little chat I had with my sister, who is also a writer as well as my co-authoress, that really clinched the matter!
I just mentioned it to her in passing, but she really laid it out for me. 

She very sweetly encouraged me to keep at it, because she enjoys my blog{!! ♥ }, and she thinks I should keep it up.  Plus, she reminded me in a very timely comment that sometimes it doesn’t matter how frequently or non-frequently I might post, it’s the quality of the content that matters.  Like on Youtube, if the posters there take the time to post quality videos that are interesting to them and to their users, people are much more likely to appreciate that work, rather than someone who may churn out a video everyday, but doesn’t take the time to make quality content.

That, plus your very reassuring comments make me feel that if I do keep posting on DT!, it doesn’t matter if I stick to any sort of schedule, but focus on posting when I can/feel like it. 

It may be twice a week, it might be twice a month.  I honestly don’t know right now, but I promise that I will try to make every post worth reading.  I think it’s going to be fun that way, don’t you?

xox,

bonita

P.S.  ~ This isn’t a proper outfit post ~ more like the daily co~ordinate or something….  Anyway, if I do these types of quick clicks, I won’t put up a list of the clothes that I am wearing.  If you do want to particularly find out about a certain item, just let me know in the comments and I’ll fill in the details.  
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Monday, October 15

Goodbye Bluebell Dreamer…


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I really hate to say this, but I think I might have to put Depict This! on a permanent hiatus…

I don’t want to, but a part of me does, and I am really confused as to what to do.

I want to keep blogging ~ I love taking photos {outfit or otherwise}, I love sharing things about a vintage lifestyle, mine or other fabulous vintageistas I know.  I love writing, I love the community, and I love having a space to express myself where other people actually get it.  

But here’s the thing ~ I am tired.  It’s hard to keep up with the house, the toddler, and the horse {of which I now have two, thanks to number one’s lease ending suddenly!}.  It’s hard to have to time to just enjoy family life.  I want to be able to sit down and paint my nails without stressing about all the things I am currently not doing.  I want to be able to work on my novel.  Blogging just seems to drain all my writing juice clear away.  

Not to mention baby number two on the way…  We’re 16 weeks along and that magical second trimester energy they keep going on about?  Yah, not happening so much here.

*sigh*  I am sorry to be such a blue blogger over here, but I guess I need to talk this out. 

I kind of want to keep DT! going and just post whenever I feel like it, but at the moment I don’t know if that’d be even once a week and that kind of just bums me out.  I personally dislike it when I find an awesome blog {NOT saying that DT! is awesome ~ just citing some real-live examples} and it’s hardly EVER updated.  If I really like it, I might follow/keep reading anyway, but otherwise I feel like there’s no point.  So I don’t want to let any of my readers down, but I don’t think I want to shut down altogether either….

Although, if it came to it, I probably would close DT! if only to get rid of one more commitment I feel I can’t keep up with.

What say you?  Have you guys ever been through this kind of dilemma?

xox,

bonita

P.S. ~  On a happier note, I have been calling those flowers “bluebells” forever, but apparently they are Grape Hyacinths.  Aren’t they cute though?  I have them running wild in my lawn and I love it…  ^ u ^

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50’s Vintage Bluebell Butter Dress ~  Ebay    Carved Rose Bracelet  ~  Dotti   Vintage Creamy Drop Belt  ~  Etsy  Santa Cruz Beach Heel  Modcloth

Wednesday, March 7

Youtube Tags & Rambles



Okay, so this a tag video that just goes through some stuff about me!  I did it mostly for my Youtube channel’s subscribers{wow, I actually have some of those!} so feel free to skip it if you find rambling talking heads boring…  ; P

I had fun recording this meme.  It’s kind of interesting to find out what you think about some things ~ I sort of surprised myself with some of the answers.  And I thought it was funny how you could hear all the trucks in the background once in a while ~ yes, there’s quite a bit of traffic around our house.   > <

Incidentally, what do you guys think about commenting?   I like to reply to the comments I get on my blog, but I’m not sure that anyone reads the replies…  Should I keep replying or not bother do you think?  I personally used to not like it when I read a blog and the blogger never seemed to answer the comments, but now I sort of understand why they might not choose to do that.  Still, for me the whole point of blogging beside the enjoyment of it, is the community and friendships you form.  I tend to think that if you don’t reply to comments that dialogue is cut off.  What do you think?  Any advice on this would be appreciated.    ^ ω ^

xox,

bonita

Thursday, July 14

Some awesome tech that I ♥

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I have a few websites & iPhone apps that I wanted to share & review with you today.  I having been loving these ever since I found them and I think that they are just too good to keep to myself, so here you are!

Instragram

Okay, so a lot of bloggers already know about this free app for the iPhone, but I want to share it anyway just in case. 

Instagram is a great app for anyone who loves to capture an instant photo, and with the added advantage of a polaroid type picture, it produces some pretty cool snaps.  It’s simple and easy to use, so this app is superb for everybody! 

The thing that I personally like the most about Instagram is that it forces you to work with limited lens and capture technology.  It’s a challenge to get a good picture, but once you do, you can make it look pretty spiffy with the tilt shift function and the awesome range of filters.  I like that I can grab a shot when I see it, and still have to rise to the challenge to put the shot together in a way that looks good.  I think that this is great app for furthering my photography skills and technique so that’s why I am loving it!*

Verdict:

4.5 /5  ~  could be faster to load up into the camera view, other than that, fantastic.

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Extragram

And if you are taking all these gorgeous photos how are you going to share them?  Why, with the Extragram website of course!  You can share your photos and follow other people, and much like Twitter, receive the feed of the people you are following on you iPhone.  Sweetness!   There are some great pictures out there and it is really inspiring to see what you can do with a simple phone camera.

Ravelry

Okay, now I heading off in another direction and into another hobby of mine; knitting and crochet.  If you are a knitter or crocheter { or both; like me! } and you’ve looked up patterns on the internet, Ravelry might be old news to you.  However, I only just discovered it recently and I am impressed! 

It provides a nifty way of not only finding patterns, but also storing them, keeping track of your UFOs { Un~Finished Objects! }, your yarn stash, and, of course, the successful projects that you have finished and want to gloat over.   I like that I can put up photographs of my projects and keep them all organized ~ so again, loving this site. 

2Do

Speaking of organization, I have to mention 2Do.  It’s an iPhone app, so it’s limited in availability, and you also have to pay a $7.49AUD fee for it{ it’s gone up since I bought it{ !! }but if you consider how much you pay for an organizer, it’s still worth it and you never have to throw it out or buy new pages }.  If you are wanting something to help you stay on top of things however, and you happen to have an iPhone, I can really recommend this app. 

Usually { as you probably know } I am a traditionalist.  Give me good old paper over tech any time!  But the thing is, I can only fit so much in my tiny vintage handbags and using this app helps me to loose an address book, a to-do list, shopping lists, a social calendar, a blogging calendar, an art & craft ideas notebook, etc ~ basically the brick of paper that is a Filofax/organizer!

I like that I can bundle most of my life into my phone and I am good to go!  Okay, so I still keep a separate journal, but between 2Do and Instagram I am pretty much set.  I have slimmed down the contents of my purse, and as a bonus, feel a lot less “scattered” with all my bits and bobs in one place.  Yay!   > ω <   ~ 

Verdict:

5/5  ~  You know what?  No complaints from me.  I was trying to think of a downer, but there just isn’t one.  All in all it’s a really great app!

What apps/websites do you use to help keep you organized?  Are there any that you just love?

xox,

bonita

*All the pictures were taken with Instagram.  Theodore makes the best subject!  ^  U  ^  ~ 

Monday, June 6

Ssssh! The baby is sleeping….


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After ten months of waiting and waiting and waiting and ~ well, you get the picture….   Theodore Kenneth James* is finally here! 

Our little boy arrived Friday, 3rd of June at 1:35am.   He was 54cm long and 8.77 pounds {or 3.8 kgs}. His name means “Gift of God” and his middle names are in honour of Husband & Grandpa’s middle name and Granda’s middle name. 

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I will be away from Depict This! for a while as Husband and I get to know the newest addition to our family, but I hope to see you all soon.  ^  u  ^   Now I have to go; I think I hear Theodore stirring.

xox,

bonita

*These are his first and two middle names, I have excluded our surname for privacy.  : )

Friday, May 6

Quick Share ~ Blogging Style

Pretty_2I discovered this post on No Sign Posts in the Sea on Thursday, and found it such a good read.  I often wonder about my reluctance to take outfit photos when I think the outfit isn’t good enough ~ where does that hesitance originate from?

What is the point of outfit posting for me?  Is it merely a chance to record the clothes I wear on any given day, or something more than that? 

In commenting on this post I actually discovered something about myself, my blogging and my outfits!  For me, blogging outfits is more than just recording an event in my day {I get dressed; this is what I wore}.   For me is a chance to explore different looks or styles, or even just to have fun with the clothes I am in.   Sure, I stick pretty closely to one given style, but that’s because I want too ~ because I have seen what other people are wearing and although I think it looks great on them; it’s not for me.

I also adore the opportunity that outfit posting affords me to revel another way of creating art.  Putting clothes and photographs together is fun.  I like to take the artistic medium of photography and use it frame the practical medium of clothes.   Even when Husband is taking the photos I am always asking him to take a shot of this pose, with that angle, etc, etc; I am always a part of composing the picture and I do all the editing and polishing to get the final results. 

Some people don’t like the fantasy aspect of the editorial style of fashion blogging and I understand that ~ they want real life inspiration from realistic records of outfits and style choices.  But I guess as an artist I tend to be looking for style inspiration that I can twist and use in a way I want to.  I don’t need to see the same item worn one hundred different ways, I want to think up the hundred different ways to wear it myself!

I also want to absorb pictures and images I consider to be beautiful and combine them into something new.   So for me, I find that easier to do with fantasy styled fashion inspiration/photographs/blogs than with what some people consider the more accurate/honest/truthful outfit photographs. 

I did not even know I thought like that until I read this post, so sorry for the long essay, but please do read this article.  It’s very interesting!

On personal style, blogging, and our narratives

For the past couple of days wearing clothes has felt very organic to me, just natural. I haven't thought twice about what to wear in the mornings; I've just grabbed a pair of jeans and a shirt and gone with it. The interesting thing is that I have felt really good about the clothes I have worn, but that I haven't thought of taking outfit pictures, because the clothes have not felt blogging-worthy, and this worries me a little. Actually, it is not even the blogging-worthiness. It is more about the problem I am starting to have with style blogging in general. I feel like the style blog narrative is starting to escape from my grasp, or perhaps that my own issues with personal style are escaping from the world of style blogging altogether.

I have often wondered what long-term style blogging does to our style. I started blogging a little over three years ago because I had become a clothes hoarder and a bit of a shopping addict. I felt like I needed to get my head around what I really thought about fashion, personal style, shopping and body image….

xox,

bonita

P.S.  ~  Here is the link to Part Two  if you are also interested:   

On personal style, blogging, and our narratives, part 2

Sunday, March 27

My own Coveted Scandal Resolved!

Just a quick note to let everyone know that branding issues between Mr Brown and myself have been resolved amicably. 

In further discussion, Mr Brown revealed some details of his planned Depict This project, and because of his doing so I was able to see that our target audiences are not as close as I had initially thought. 

Although I still very much regret that I did not purchase the depictthis.com URL when I the opportunity,  I am glad to know that Mr Brown’s Depict This is sufficiently different from mine.  There may be a slight overlap in the target market {the art community}, but I do not think that there will be much, if any, over lap in the general readership of either blogs.

I am greatly relieved to discover this, and am quite happy to believe that our respective blogs/brands will be able to coexist quite peacefully.   It may not be the perfect ending, but it is far better than what I was hoping for.  Yay!

xox,

bonita

Friday, March 25

Quick Share ~ What kind of blogger are you?

I always thought I was a hobby blogger because I do not make any money from my blog, but after reading this post from Brunette Blogging I realized that I actually I am a semi professional blogger.

Knowing what kind of blog you have, and what you are aiming to achieve with your blog can be really helpful in your planning for the future.  Hopefully, this post will help you figure it all out.   ^  w  ^

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Blogging walhalla, what does it mean for you? One thing bloggers have in common is that we blog because we love it. But, but, but: the reason why we love it can be quite different, depending on why you’re blogging in the first place.

Are you doing it because you want your blog to help your career? Is it purely a hobby? Read on to find out in which category you belong….

xox,

bonita

Monday, March 21

Embroiled in my very own Coveted scandal…

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This last week has not been the greatest….. 

Somehow I managed to end up in the middle of my very own brand theft/copyright struggle and I thought I would share what is going on. 

Early last week I received an email from a gentleman I shall call Mr Brown.  Mr Brown sounded really nice.  He wanted to start up his own brand/art website/blog and was considering the name “Depict This” until he did a search and found out that there was already a “Depict This!” which, of course, is my blog.   He wondered if it would be okay if he used a different variation of the title {Depict This Blog: Thoughts on Art and Theology} and whether I would be cool with that.

I sat and thought about his request, but had to admit that I was not comfortable with the idea of Mr Brown having a blog title that was essentially the same as mine.  I explained my reasons to him as I wanted him to understand why I felt that way.

Firstly I said that I felt we were trying to reach a very similar target audience ~ I write about art and photography on Depict This! as part of my life style blog, but also I use Depict This! as the writing portfolio for my B dot Depictions studio.  I am trying to reach the online art community.   Mr Brown wants to create an art brand and start an art blog using the same name; he is trying to reach the online art community.

I also explained how I had worked excessively hard in creating exposure for Depict This! and that I would hate to lose any of that ~ particularly with Google searches, etc.  A great deal of my traffic comes through Google so if anyone was to search Depict This, I knew Mr Brown’s site would come up as well and there would most definitely be a conflict of interest.

identity_theftI sent that email and received a reply.  All was well.  Mr Brown responded politely, saying that he understood where I was coming from and stating that he would not use Depict This because he also did not want a conflict of interest for his work. 

I thought everything was settled.  

I was wrong.  

Suddenly I receive a bombshell email from Mr Brown.  He decided that as he could not come up with any other titles for his brand that were not already taken, he was going back to his original idea of calling his brand/blog Depict This.  He also decided to buy the URLs depictthis.com and depictthisblog.com.

When I got this email, it really upset me.  The last two months have been difficult for me.  I have been  living out of a suitcase; a stranger in a strange city.  On top of that I have been shuffled from pillar to post ~ from room to room, hotel to hotel.  And if that does not seem like such a huge deal, I agree.  It probably isn’t.  But add the fact that I am in the middle of my last trimester, expecting my first child {which, let’s face it, is never a smooth ride!} and everything goes up in smoke! 

To be honest, at this stage I was {and still am when I think about it} on the verge of tears.  I really just wanted to pack it all in. 

I have poured my heart and soul into this blog ~ I love it.   I love the writing.  I love creating outfits and taking photos.  I love sharing with a community of likeminded people.  I just love most everything about it {except writer’s block!}; but after reading that email from Mr Brown I felt like I could not go on.   That I just do not have the strength to fight for my blog and frankly, I had no idea what to do about it.

pic_082605_identitytheftI sent a reply to Mr Brown, offering to assist him in creating a brand/blog name that would benefit the both of us, but he was not having any of it.  So here I am; completely stuck and completely miserable.   Husband steps in at this point and he emails Mr Brown.  We have not heard back from him yet, and I am not sure that I want too. 

I really am devastated about this turn of events.  I do not know if Depict This! is going to survive a branding battle, but whatever the outcome, I am going to keep writing.  I am going to keep on blogging.  I feel like giving up; I really do. 

I won’t though.  

See, in the end, I am not fighting for my right to blog under this name ~ I do not have any aspirations to become a professional blogger; I know in my heart that’s not what I want.   I would love it if I could still be the only Depict This! blog; I have worked so hard under that name and to have that snatched away by someone else is just shattering.

In the end, I feel like I am fighting for the right to enjoy my blog.  At the moment it is like someone has taken a knife and spray paint to my work; hacked it up and said “Here, you can have the leftovers.”   I just want to be able to blog without worrying about competition, confusion and conflict.

It does not look like that is going to happen. 

So please, if you love blogging and care about your blog name; register it as a URL.   It does not matter if you never go pro, it does not matter if you never use it.  At least you have the peace of mind knowing that your blog name is safe. 

Do not make the same mistake that I did and leave it until it is too late.  

xox,

bonita

Thursday, March 17

Poll Results!

Hey everyone,

I thought that it might be a good time to put up the results of my content poll. 

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So at the top: outfit posts ~ which is fine with me; I love putting outfits together!  I just have to figure out how to dress up the bump in different ways…  A little hard as baby keeps getting bigger, but I will try my best!bullet2

Tied for second place; Crafts, Deco, Vintage and Art posts.  I must admit, the votes for more art and photography posts surprised me ~ I do not get many comments on those, if any at all, so I was under the impression that they were not really what you guys wanted to see.

The poll speaks louder than comments, as it were, and I am more than happy to put up more art and photography posts as I am very passionate about my art and I love to share it!

Last up are the thinking and review posts.  I like writing these, but I am glad they are not that high on the list of content you want to see.  I tend to do these only when I really have something to say, or I just have to tell you all about a new product I love.  Because neither event seems to occur that often I guess it is a good thing you only want to see them once in a while! 

I am looking forwards to writing these new posts for you and I hope you all enjoy reading them.
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xox,

bonita

Saturday, March 5

C-c-c-c-changes!

Do you like the new theme I have created for Depict This! ?   Personally, I have never really liked change ~ I do not like moving furniture, or houses, or fiddling around with my environment.   Once anything is set up the way I like it ~ I hate changing it!  I am a bit like a cat in that regards {and in my sleeping habits….}; my fur gets all ruffled when I have to move around.

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So it is going to take a while for me to get used to the new theme, but it is based off my new B dot Depictions studio website and the design I created for it.

The reason I changed the blog theme to match my studio’s look was that my blog is actually part of the studio, so I really need to have the two looking coherent.  Slowly, but surely, the studio is all coming together and for that I am super excited!! 

Of course, that also means changing my Etsy and Cafepress shop banners and styles too, but I will get around to that soon {hopefully!}.

In keeping with all the changes, however, I am keen to know what you all like to see on my blog ~ so I am going to do a content poll.   Now is the time to speak up about what topics you prefer to read about and what you would like me to post more on in the future.

 

 

If I have missed out on anything you would like to see on Depict This!, just leave a comment and I will put in my blog ideas list.  Thank you for your input ~ it is very important to me.  ^ w ^ 

xox,

bonita

Friday, February 11

Quick Share ~ Growing Your Blogs Traffic

Another fantastic guide to better blogging from Fuyume.net ~ I particularly loved the first tip that suggests submitting your URL to search engines.  I think that this is a great tip because it is a really easy and quick thing to do but may generate quite a bit of traffic for your blog/website.

I also like the tip of joining the Independent Fashion Blogger’s community ~ this blogging community is a fantastic way to connect with other bloggers, and it is very worthwhile to sign up and check it out.

A Fashion Bloggers Guide to Growing Your Blogs Traffic

So I've been blogging for roughly 7 months now and I'm no expert but I have managed to grow my blog to 60,000+ page views a month so this is a little guide to what I've discovered about growing traffic in that time and what has worked for me.  This post was a labour of love so I hope you guys find it useful….

xox,

bonita

Tuesday, February 8

Copyright ~ or a right to copy?



The debate between a knockoff, inspiration, and copyright is often discussed quite vigorously in blogland.  Just recently we have seen a whole host of bloggers addressing brand copyright infringements due to The Coveted scandal.  {See here, here and here for further information}

It is an interesting, ongoing debate because there are so many areas copyright can apply to ~ obviously, as you well know, pretty much anything produced by anyone can be under copyright protection.  Personally as an artist, I feel very strongly about copyright and issues of art theft, but somehow am left completely muddled as to how I feel about fashion theft.

This confusion is mainly because I adore some designer fashions such as Jimmy Choo shoes, but never in a million years could afford them.  Knockoffs are my saviour and yes, I am guilty of owning not one but two “Frada” handbags.  But when we release a work {whatever it may be} into the public eye, how much copyright control do we have?

When I was contemplating this, it struck me that there seems very much to be a public sentiment these days of the audience’s “Right to Copy” which for the most part tends to disregard the laws of copyright.
  
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I do not want to do a “Technology is bad” rant, but it does seem that with the advent of the internet and the ease of access to so much original work, increasingly the general public ignores rules over taking images, sourcing information and even just giving credit where credit is due. 

Of course, as a bloggers, if we wish to keep our reputation and integrity we must give credit.  There are no two ways about it.  But what about protecting your own work? 

For myself, if people want to use content, {i.e. ideas, photographs, text} from my blog Depict This! I wouldn’t have a problem with that if they give me some credit; linking to my blog at the very least.  In my opinion the best way, however, is to be polite and ask before using ideas and images.  

I made the mistake once of not doing that, and was absolutely mortified when the owner of a blog I greatly admired contacted me and asked me to take down some images I had reposted even though I had credited the work to her and linked her blog in the post.   I immediately took down the images and wrote the owner a letter of apology as well as explaining things on the original post.
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That experience taught me a valuable lesson that sometimes crediting work just isn’t good enough.   And I think that is true of designer fashion and knockoffs as well.  It’s all well and good for my Frada bags to pretend to credit Prada but what about the return for the original designer’s work?    

If an artist/designer is trying to sell their pictures or clothes and a copycat steals the work and tries to sell it to the same market, then that's not really fair on the original owners because they do not get the return for their work.  And giving the original artist/designer credit may gain them some exposure, but let’s face it, that market exposure probably will not be worth as much as the sale of their original piece.

And here’s a kicker; couture designers are selling to a particular market that would probably not go near a knockoff with a ten foot barge pole.  And the knockoffs are selling to a market that can not afford the original products.  So technically the markets, although in the same genre of fashion, are not actually aiming to sell at the same target audience.  

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When it comes to blogging, in my mind it is not fair if content is stolen without credit because then the 'return' for the content {blog exposure or more readers} is not passed onto the original owners who worked on the content.  Naturally, this principle also applies to blog branding.

But the fact of the matter is that once we put our work out there, there seems to be little we can do to control how it is used.  Disabling right click save on images doesn’t work all the time {my tech geek hubby popped that bubble pretty quickly!} and there doesn’t seem to be many ways of controlling your public content, although watermarking images does offer some protection.

We can deal with larger cases of copyright infringement, but even things like Anthropology ripping off smaller designers seems to be happening relatively frequently.  It seems to me that it’s no longer just the public audience exercising their right to copy, but also larger corporations.  

Sadly enough {and not everyone may agree} it seems that the moral to the story is:  Once your work is published, it’s free game.  So be prepared for it to be borrowed, copied, or worse, stolen children-together-1950altogether. 

Yes, it’s a bit of a doom and gloom~ish conclusion, but we can do something about it.  We can support our fellow bloggers by asking before using their content, and by never forgetting to credit, link and generally acknowledging the hard work that they do.   It might be a small step, but it can make a difference.   

xox,
bonita
 
 
Inspiration for this post  ~ Thanks to Britten from What She Should Have Worn for writing this post: Copy Cats and inspiring my thoughts on the topic of copyright.

P.S. ~ All images in this post are linked to the original source.  Please click on the pictures to follow through.

Friday, February 4

Quick Share ~ Getting Sponsors for Your Blog

When I was reading this how to post by Ashley of Little Miss Momma, I thought it was really defined the starting points for anyone considering venturing into the world of "professional" blogging and finding sponsors for their blog.

Now personally, I do not think that you need to have sponsors to be a professional blogger; but I suppose the accepted definition of a professional is someone who gets paid for the work they do. It does seem that the only way a blogger can get paid for the work they do on their blog is with sponsors and advertisements, although I think that if the blog is bringing in other work or commissions to the blogger, {but there are no advertisements} the blogger is still a professional in my mind.

However, if you choose to go down the sponsorship path, I think this post is a helpful guide.

Little Miss Momma: How to Get Sponsors for Your Blog

I have received this question in my inbox a lot lately, and I have struggled to respond because there is no quick answer to this question-- and what works for me may be different then what will work for you. So this post will give you an overview of what has worked for me.

When I started my blog on February 22, 2010, not an advertiser in the world would take a chance with me. I was new. I hardly had any content on my blog and I only received hits from my Mom, Nina and Brittany. There was nothing in it for them.

So I started small. I started with giveaways. Of my own products, at first. Then I convinced some of my friends to give me product for a giveaway. And once I got to a point where people were actually reading my blog, I went in search of real advertisers....


xox,

bonita

Sunday, January 23

LINKS À LA MODE: THE IFB WEEKLY ROUNDUP


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"I have confidence that spring will come again, Besides which you see I have confidence in me"


Edited by Florrie Clarke of Intrinsically Florrie

Within this week's links I kept noticing a resounding honestly in the heartfelt posts. When we blog or choose an outfit we are putting ourselves out there for all to judge, and it's not surprising that doing the activity can have an affect on our confidence for better or for worse, especially when feedback starts coming in.


There's also been a sense of rebellion in the air: from the emergence of the punk style to controversy over Vogue, and in the week that saw the spectacle which is the Golden Globes rises a questioning of what the red carpet is all about.

Links à la Mode: January 20th

  • A la Modest Drawing inspiration from Kabukis, Rainbow Brite, Ladytron, and Padmé Amidala while on Tatooine
  • Antares: Alfa Scorpii Fashion without mercy: do I have to choose between fashion and my beliefs?
  • By Anika Who gets to label me and my worth? I do! An honest account from this curvy fashionista who fiercely supports all of our rights to label, embrace and love our fashionable selves, what ever our size.
  • City of Glitter To Cover-up or Not To Cover-up? A post exploring foundation and its role in our self-esteem.
  • Crimson Rosella Blogging: A Self-confidence booster?
  • Depict This The challenge of wearing vintage clothing in the real world
  • Elle Enchanted My take on what bloggers need to consider before accepting a sponsor.
  • Fashezine Inspired by Jennine Jacob's post on how fashion blogs will evolve in 2011, I thought I'd try my hand at a video.
  • Fashion Limbo Online Christmas Shopping, the Aftermath - on lost packages, refunds and independent retailers.
  • Fuyume The demise of the kimono industry.
  • Fish Monkey's Writing Stuff Why I don't think that red carpets have any relevance to fashion.
  • Independent Fashion Bloggers: 5 Tips for Taking Better Photos of Yourself
  • Intrinsically Florrie The fashion show that's made me impatient for summer.
  • Karma-Style Blog Lady Gaga and Nicki Minaj have 'FoF' - Fearlessness of Fashion. Do you?
  • My Heart Blogged Falling head over flats. My flats collections, and why you don't see me wearing heels.
  • Scarlet Letter Style Why is the fashion world so critical? I have an idea on how to fix it
  • The Column of Samantha Tyler Of Punks and their influence on Fashion
  • The Fashion Pawn The fourth part of The B.O.B Series discusses all "About You:" Tips for your About You Page.
  • The-Loud Mouth Sometimes, garbage piles up: Fashion blogging isn't just a hobby. For some, it can be an emotional release.
  • The Taxonomy Of My Wardrobe Three Strikes Vogue - You're Out! Three examples of how the fashion bible is inexcusably out of touch with readers and losing relevance in today's world
  • The Simply Luxorious Life Why Not . . . Create Your Own Signature Style?

SPONSOR:
New@Shopbop: Bassike, Shakuhachi, Nissa, Minnetonkas, FreePeople,Tibi, AIKO, Bird, Myne, Black Halo, Kova&T, Hanii Y

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Call me oblivious, but I had no idea my post had been selected for this week’s IFB Links a la Mode roundup!   *kiya!*   > o < !  I am so excited, it’s such a privilege to be selected. 

Thank you to everyone who has read my post and visited my blog ~ it is great to have you stop by. 

xox,

bonita

Tuesday, January 18

Wearing Vintage ~ Real world vs. Blog land

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I feel like a princess ~ I have donned my petticoat, pretty 50s style dress, kitten heels and softly gleaming pearl jewellery.   Then I step out the door and all of that changes….  I walk with my head high, conscious of the stares and double takes.  Yes, I know I am dressed differently from the average young person, but is it really that strange?

I have heard other vintage bloggers talk about their fashion choices and the effect it has on public when they walk out the door in head to toe, era perfect wear.   To be honest, I thought I knew what they were talking about.  I’ve had my fair share of odd looks ~ I haven’t really dressed in ‘normal’ clothing for sometime, but then again I have never gone the full head to toe of any style in particular ~ i.e. Goth, punk, Lolita, vintage etc.

Apparently outfits that are slightly off magazine trendy are unique and edgy, but a completely non~fashionable style such as vintage is peculiar.  I say this because the general public response to my vintage outfits and to my ‘interesting’ arty outfits is not the same and this surprises me for some reason!  Therefore, I am wondering if my expectations of people’s reactions is slightly warped perhaps?

You see, what I see on my computer and what I experience in the real world are two very different things.   You might say there are almost two separate worlds that I wear vintage in, one is the internet in vintage~friendly blog land and the other is my life; amongst real strangers with real judgements and preconceived ideas.

If you are wondering what I mean by saying that, let me say that this is how I see it:

In internet~blog land we read and visit blogs that we are interested in; so if you are into food you will read food blogs, and if you are into IT development you will read developer’s blogs.  It’s much the same with fashion blogs ~ if you are obsessed with runway fashion, you will read blogs that focus on that, and if perchance, you happen to like vintage fashion, those are the blogs you will focus on and immerse yourself in.

So everyday in your feed reader you will see gorgeous ladies dressed in 50s tea length dresses, 20s flapper outfits, 30s, 40s, 60s ~ you name it.  Every era, every style, every part of history is represented online.  And the thing about that is, you not only see bloggers themselves excited to wear these gorgeous clothes, but their readers eager to see them wear those clothes too ~ to me, these blogs are communities built around expressing yourself through your clothes. 

Therefore, in the online world vintage clothing is an acceptable mode of dress; and not just vintage, but pretty much any style of fashion distinct from main stream is okay.  I think that this acceptance creates an idea that dressing in vintage is a part of normal life.

But the thing is, in reality, that’s not the case.  Sure, anyone that wears vintage, or other subversive styles of dress, are really just ordinary people with different ways of expressing themselves.   However acceptable and ‘normal’ this is in the online world, it’s pretty unusual to see someone in everyday life wearing unordinary, un~everyday clothing!

I forget that.   I walk out in vintage clothing {my preferred style} and I forget that the majority of people around me may think that queer, bizarre or even odd. 

Because of that I find it easier to post pictures of my vintage outfits than actually wearing them, because in one world uncommon fashions are admired, but in the other, they are just plain weird.

Does anyone else have this problem when they make daring fashion choices?

xox,

bonita

Friday, January 14

Quick Share ~ 10 tips to a Better Blog

There are a TON of “How to be a better blogger” posts out there, but this one stands out for me because it's sort of a guideline of how I like to blog too.  My favourite tip is to read outside of your genre of blogging. 

For example, if you are interested in other subjects but feel as a fashion/art/music blogger you should only read fashion/art/music blogs you might be missing out on worlds of inspiration that you can use to help you write more comprehensive posts!   This is just one of the ten tips from Victoria Suzanne, so if you are interested check her post out.

 

Lolita Charm: 10 Tips to a Better Blog

I read recently that some girls perhaps 'aren't writing blogs for the right reasons' or 'who should and shouldn't write blogs'. Bullshit. ANYONE can write a successful blog! A blog, first and foremost, is for you. It's not for anyone else to tell you that you're not good enough to write a blog, or that you're note 'experienced' enough.

There's nothing standing in the way of you and your own .blogspot.com! I promise. I know it looks like a big job - and it is - but there's nothing that says you can't do it. It takes practice, maybe, and dedication, but if you really want to, you'll get it. Here's what I've discovered so far in my years as blogger...


xox,

bonita

Friday, January 7

Quick Share ~ Life & Love offline

Please visit this link to read an insightful post on blogging and offline relationships. I think that it is a good reminder to put the computer down and spend some serious time with those that we know and love in real life. It's all about balance....

Taste & Style Files: This one's for you, Babe.


"A lovely fellow blogista of ours, Vahni of Grit & Glamour, wrote an ever-inspiring post today entitled Mr. Stylist.

When I read it I couldn't help but feel a tug of guilt at my heartstrings, and the feeling that I know I've been having the past couple of weeks came rushing in like a hurricane..."

xox,

bonita
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