Showing posts with label community. Show all posts
Showing posts with label community. Show all posts

Monday, June 25

Frock Up Canberra ~ Depict This!’s first meet up & local vintage show!


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Hello m’dears!  I am very excited to share this fabulous vintage fair coming along our way this weekend!  I hope it’s not too late, but I would love to do a meet up if anyone is interested. 

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The details are:

Saturday, 1pm
Sorry lovelies, we have an emergency snowboarding situation; so let’s make it

10:00am, Sunday the 1st of July, near the front entrance of Albert Hall

~ wear your gorgeous glad rags and we can frock up for this event!

Tickets cost $14.00 at the door, or $12.00 if you print off the discount voucher on the website. 

I haven’t been to this fair before, so I am looking forwards to checking it out, and hopefully seeing some of your lovely smiling face there!  Please let me know in the comments if you are planning to come along, so that I have a vague idea of what to expect regarding numbers.

Further details {like how to get there!} and the like can be found on the Frock Up Canberra Winter Fair Site. 

xox,

bonita

Wednesday, March 7

Youtube Tags & Rambles



Okay, so this a tag video that just goes through some stuff about me!  I did it mostly for my Youtube channel’s subscribers{wow, I actually have some of those!} so feel free to skip it if you find rambling talking heads boring…  ; P

I had fun recording this meme.  It’s kind of interesting to find out what you think about some things ~ I sort of surprised myself with some of the answers.  And I thought it was funny how you could hear all the trucks in the background once in a while ~ yes, there’s quite a bit of traffic around our house.   > <

Incidentally, what do you guys think about commenting?   I like to reply to the comments I get on my blog, but I’m not sure that anyone reads the replies…  Should I keep replying or not bother do you think?  I personally used to not like it when I read a blog and the blogger never seemed to answer the comments, but now I sort of understand why they might not choose to do that.  Still, for me the whole point of blogging beside the enjoyment of it, is the community and friendships you form.  I tend to think that if you don’t reply to comments that dialogue is cut off.  What do you think?  Any advice on this would be appreciated.    ^ ω ^

xox,

bonita

Saturday, August 13

The Butterfly Blog Award ~ Yay!


So the lovely Nicole from Craft My Soul awarded me with this cool blog award and now I want to share it around!  ^ u ^

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Name your favourite colour ~ White and anything pastel!

Name your favourite song ~  I don’t really mention my world view very often on my blog, but I am a Christian and my favourite song for many years has been “In Christ Alone” because I feel that it sums up my faith and my life perfectly. 

Name your favourite dessert ~  Hmm, that’s hard.  I never used to have much of a sweet tooth, but after 8 months of pregnancy I suddenly developed a fierce taste for sugar and now I quite enjoy cake, cookies, ice cream, crumpets, chocolate{well, I always liked that one!}; the list goes on!

What wizzes you off ~ Slow drivers, being late, and having a messy house!  I can’t stand being disorganized.  It really gets my goat.

When you’re upset you ~ generally run to Husband for a big hug!!  He’s the only one who makes me feel instantly better, no matter what is going on.  I often joke that I am addicted to him, and his love is my drug.  I certainly can’t get enough of it, that’s for sure!  ; )

Your favourite pet ~  My horse Copper. He’s a 15.3hh, bay Standardbred off the track, about ten years old.  He is a real sweetheart and loves to go fast, jump and generally muck about on the trail.  I love how he has a great work ethic; he really tries to please you, although it takes him a while to pick on things sometimes, if you reassure him he will get it and do well!

Black or white ~ White... Although if you had have asked me that a year ago I would have said black for sure! 

Your biggest fear ~ Being left alone….  Yeah.  Not fun. 

Best feature ~  My creativity.  I like the fact that I can pull random bits and pieces together to make something pretty, or draw a picture that captures what I feel.  I love creating and I love ideas!  It’s so much fun. 

Everyday attitude ~  Live life to the fullest; being thankful for every precious moment. 

What is perfection ~  I could go all deep & meaningful on you, but how about simple pleasures; like hugs and warm nights and baby smiles. : )

Guilty pleasure ~ Trashy t.v. shows….  > . <  Can you say America’s Next Top Model anyone?

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Here are the 10 fabulous blogs I am awarding{in no particular order}:

1. Just Add Glitter and Stir ~ Maggi’s awesome vintage blog with crochet, crafting and babies. 
2. Forever Amber ~ Two words. Shoes + Funny = Awesome sauce.  Love Amber.
3. Katiefoolery  ~  A fellow writer and photographer, Katie is a girl after my own heart.
4. Scathingly Brilliant  ~  Pink hair & pretty frocks; Kate Gabrielle has a pretty, romantic style.
5.You've Got Nail  ~  Jacie has the low down on nail polishes, beauty, product reviews.
6. Esme and The Lane Way  ~  Esme has amazing style & is simply gorgeous; great vintage inspiration.
7. Va-Voom Vintage ~  Brittany has sweet vintage clothes and she always look fabulous.
8. Diary of a Vintage Girl  ~  Fleur is so friendly and lovely and she is such an inspiration to me.
9. Land Girl 1980  ~  I really enjoy Land Girl’s style and vintage vibe. We share a love for the 1940s era.
10. Clothes, Cameras & Coffee  ~  Rosalind is a darling, an amazing writer and fashionista.  So fab.

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If you received an award from me, here's what you have to do if you would like to play along and award a few of your favourite blogs ~

~  Link to the person who awarded you
~  Answer the questions above
~  Award 10 other bloggers the Butterfly Award

Cheers to all you lovely ladies and gents out there in internet land.   > ω <

xox,

bonita

Sunday, March 27

My own Coveted Scandal Resolved!

Just a quick note to let everyone know that branding issues between Mr Brown and myself have been resolved amicably. 

In further discussion, Mr Brown revealed some details of his planned Depict This project, and because of his doing so I was able to see that our target audiences are not as close as I had initially thought. 

Although I still very much regret that I did not purchase the depictthis.com URL when I the opportunity,  I am glad to know that Mr Brown’s Depict This is sufficiently different from mine.  There may be a slight overlap in the target market {the art community}, but I do not think that there will be much, if any, over lap in the general readership of either blogs.

I am greatly relieved to discover this, and am quite happy to believe that our respective blogs/brands will be able to coexist quite peacefully.   It may not be the perfect ending, but it is far better than what I was hoping for.  Yay!

xox,

bonita

Monday, March 21

Embroiled in my very own Coveted scandal…

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This last week has not been the greatest….. 

Somehow I managed to end up in the middle of my very own brand theft/copyright struggle and I thought I would share what is going on. 

Early last week I received an email from a gentleman I shall call Mr Brown.  Mr Brown sounded really nice.  He wanted to start up his own brand/art website/blog and was considering the name “Depict This” until he did a search and found out that there was already a “Depict This!” which, of course, is my blog.   He wondered if it would be okay if he used a different variation of the title {Depict This Blog: Thoughts on Art and Theology} and whether I would be cool with that.

I sat and thought about his request, but had to admit that I was not comfortable with the idea of Mr Brown having a blog title that was essentially the same as mine.  I explained my reasons to him as I wanted him to understand why I felt that way.

Firstly I said that I felt we were trying to reach a very similar target audience ~ I write about art and photography on Depict This! as part of my life style blog, but also I use Depict This! as the writing portfolio for my B dot Depictions studio.  I am trying to reach the online art community.   Mr Brown wants to create an art brand and start an art blog using the same name; he is trying to reach the online art community.

I also explained how I had worked excessively hard in creating exposure for Depict This! and that I would hate to lose any of that ~ particularly with Google searches, etc.  A great deal of my traffic comes through Google so if anyone was to search Depict This, I knew Mr Brown’s site would come up as well and there would most definitely be a conflict of interest.

identity_theftI sent that email and received a reply.  All was well.  Mr Brown responded politely, saying that he understood where I was coming from and stating that he would not use Depict This because he also did not want a conflict of interest for his work. 

I thought everything was settled.  

I was wrong.  

Suddenly I receive a bombshell email from Mr Brown.  He decided that as he could not come up with any other titles for his brand that were not already taken, he was going back to his original idea of calling his brand/blog Depict This.  He also decided to buy the URLs depictthis.com and depictthisblog.com.

When I got this email, it really upset me.  The last two months have been difficult for me.  I have been  living out of a suitcase; a stranger in a strange city.  On top of that I have been shuffled from pillar to post ~ from room to room, hotel to hotel.  And if that does not seem like such a huge deal, I agree.  It probably isn’t.  But add the fact that I am in the middle of my last trimester, expecting my first child {which, let’s face it, is never a smooth ride!} and everything goes up in smoke! 

To be honest, at this stage I was {and still am when I think about it} on the verge of tears.  I really just wanted to pack it all in. 

I have poured my heart and soul into this blog ~ I love it.   I love the writing.  I love creating outfits and taking photos.  I love sharing with a community of likeminded people.  I just love most everything about it {except writer’s block!}; but after reading that email from Mr Brown I felt like I could not go on.   That I just do not have the strength to fight for my blog and frankly, I had no idea what to do about it.

pic_082605_identitytheftI sent a reply to Mr Brown, offering to assist him in creating a brand/blog name that would benefit the both of us, but he was not having any of it.  So here I am; completely stuck and completely miserable.   Husband steps in at this point and he emails Mr Brown.  We have not heard back from him yet, and I am not sure that I want too. 

I really am devastated about this turn of events.  I do not know if Depict This! is going to survive a branding battle, but whatever the outcome, I am going to keep writing.  I am going to keep on blogging.  I feel like giving up; I really do. 

I won’t though.  

See, in the end, I am not fighting for my right to blog under this name ~ I do not have any aspirations to become a professional blogger; I know in my heart that’s not what I want.   I would love it if I could still be the only Depict This! blog; I have worked so hard under that name and to have that snatched away by someone else is just shattering.

In the end, I feel like I am fighting for the right to enjoy my blog.  At the moment it is like someone has taken a knife and spray paint to my work; hacked it up and said “Here, you can have the leftovers.”   I just want to be able to blog without worrying about competition, confusion and conflict.

It does not look like that is going to happen. 

So please, if you love blogging and care about your blog name; register it as a URL.   It does not matter if you never go pro, it does not matter if you never use it.  At least you have the peace of mind knowing that your blog name is safe. 

Do not make the same mistake that I did and leave it until it is too late.  

xox,

bonita

Saturday, March 5

C-c-c-c-changes!

Do you like the new theme I have created for Depict This! ?   Personally, I have never really liked change ~ I do not like moving furniture, or houses, or fiddling around with my environment.   Once anything is set up the way I like it ~ I hate changing it!  I am a bit like a cat in that regards {and in my sleeping habits….}; my fur gets all ruffled when I have to move around.

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So it is going to take a while for me to get used to the new theme, but it is based off my new B dot Depictions studio website and the design I created for it.

The reason I changed the blog theme to match my studio’s look was that my blog is actually part of the studio, so I really need to have the two looking coherent.  Slowly, but surely, the studio is all coming together and for that I am super excited!! 

Of course, that also means changing my Etsy and Cafepress shop banners and styles too, but I will get around to that soon {hopefully!}.

In keeping with all the changes, however, I am keen to know what you all like to see on my blog ~ so I am going to do a content poll.   Now is the time to speak up about what topics you prefer to read about and what you would like me to post more on in the future.

 

 

If I have missed out on anything you would like to see on Depict This!, just leave a comment and I will put in my blog ideas list.  Thank you for your input ~ it is very important to me.  ^ w ^ 

xox,

bonita

Friday, February 11

Quick Share ~ Growing Your Blogs Traffic

Another fantastic guide to better blogging from Fuyume.net ~ I particularly loved the first tip that suggests submitting your URL to search engines.  I think that this is a great tip because it is a really easy and quick thing to do but may generate quite a bit of traffic for your blog/website.

I also like the tip of joining the Independent Fashion Blogger’s community ~ this blogging community is a fantastic way to connect with other bloggers, and it is very worthwhile to sign up and check it out.

A Fashion Bloggers Guide to Growing Your Blogs Traffic

So I've been blogging for roughly 7 months now and I'm no expert but I have managed to grow my blog to 60,000+ page views a month so this is a little guide to what I've discovered about growing traffic in that time and what has worked for me.  This post was a labour of love so I hope you guys find it useful….

xox,

bonita

Tuesday, February 8

Copyright ~ or a right to copy?



The debate between a knockoff, inspiration, and copyright is often discussed quite vigorously in blogland.  Just recently we have seen a whole host of bloggers addressing brand copyright infringements due to The Coveted scandal.  {See here, here and here for further information}

It is an interesting, ongoing debate because there are so many areas copyright can apply to ~ obviously, as you well know, pretty much anything produced by anyone can be under copyright protection.  Personally as an artist, I feel very strongly about copyright and issues of art theft, but somehow am left completely muddled as to how I feel about fashion theft.

This confusion is mainly because I adore some designer fashions such as Jimmy Choo shoes, but never in a million years could afford them.  Knockoffs are my saviour and yes, I am guilty of owning not one but two “Frada” handbags.  But when we release a work {whatever it may be} into the public eye, how much copyright control do we have?

When I was contemplating this, it struck me that there seems very much to be a public sentiment these days of the audience’s “Right to Copy” which for the most part tends to disregard the laws of copyright.
  
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I do not want to do a “Technology is bad” rant, but it does seem that with the advent of the internet and the ease of access to so much original work, increasingly the general public ignores rules over taking images, sourcing information and even just giving credit where credit is due. 

Of course, as a bloggers, if we wish to keep our reputation and integrity we must give credit.  There are no two ways about it.  But what about protecting your own work? 

For myself, if people want to use content, {i.e. ideas, photographs, text} from my blog Depict This! I wouldn’t have a problem with that if they give me some credit; linking to my blog at the very least.  In my opinion the best way, however, is to be polite and ask before using ideas and images.  

I made the mistake once of not doing that, and was absolutely mortified when the owner of a blog I greatly admired contacted me and asked me to take down some images I had reposted even though I had credited the work to her and linked her blog in the post.   I immediately took down the images and wrote the owner a letter of apology as well as explaining things on the original post.
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That experience taught me a valuable lesson that sometimes crediting work just isn’t good enough.   And I think that is true of designer fashion and knockoffs as well.  It’s all well and good for my Frada bags to pretend to credit Prada but what about the return for the original designer’s work?    

If an artist/designer is trying to sell their pictures or clothes and a copycat steals the work and tries to sell it to the same market, then that's not really fair on the original owners because they do not get the return for their work.  And giving the original artist/designer credit may gain them some exposure, but let’s face it, that market exposure probably will not be worth as much as the sale of their original piece.

And here’s a kicker; couture designers are selling to a particular market that would probably not go near a knockoff with a ten foot barge pole.  And the knockoffs are selling to a market that can not afford the original products.  So technically the markets, although in the same genre of fashion, are not actually aiming to sell at the same target audience.  

FradaThat being the case, both parties have a return and in the end I think that’s why I am okay with knockoffs, although other people may not agree with me because of deeper copyright issues.  
When it comes to blogging, in my mind it is not fair if content is stolen without credit because then the 'return' for the content {blog exposure or more readers} is not passed onto the original owners who worked on the content.  Naturally, this principle also applies to blog branding.

But the fact of the matter is that once we put our work out there, there seems to be little we can do to control how it is used.  Disabling right click save on images doesn’t work all the time {my tech geek hubby popped that bubble pretty quickly!} and there doesn’t seem to be many ways of controlling your public content, although watermarking images does offer some protection.

We can deal with larger cases of copyright infringement, but even things like Anthropology ripping off smaller designers seems to be happening relatively frequently.  It seems to me that it’s no longer just the public audience exercising their right to copy, but also larger corporations.  

Sadly enough {and not everyone may agree} it seems that the moral to the story is:  Once your work is published, it’s free game.  So be prepared for it to be borrowed, copied, or worse, stolen children-together-1950altogether. 

Yes, it’s a bit of a doom and gloom~ish conclusion, but we can do something about it.  We can support our fellow bloggers by asking before using their content, and by never forgetting to credit, link and generally acknowledging the hard work that they do.   It might be a small step, but it can make a difference.   

xox,
bonita
 
 
Inspiration for this post  ~ Thanks to Britten from What She Should Have Worn for writing this post: Copy Cats and inspiring my thoughts on the topic of copyright.

P.S. ~ All images in this post are linked to the original source.  Please click on the pictures to follow through.

Tuesday, January 18

Wearing Vintage ~ Real world vs. Blog land

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I feel like a princess ~ I have donned my petticoat, pretty 50s style dress, kitten heels and softly gleaming pearl jewellery.   Then I step out the door and all of that changes….  I walk with my head high, conscious of the stares and double takes.  Yes, I know I am dressed differently from the average young person, but is it really that strange?

I have heard other vintage bloggers talk about their fashion choices and the effect it has on public when they walk out the door in head to toe, era perfect wear.   To be honest, I thought I knew what they were talking about.  I’ve had my fair share of odd looks ~ I haven’t really dressed in ‘normal’ clothing for sometime, but then again I have never gone the full head to toe of any style in particular ~ i.e. Goth, punk, Lolita, vintage etc.

Apparently outfits that are slightly off magazine trendy are unique and edgy, but a completely non~fashionable style such as vintage is peculiar.  I say this because the general public response to my vintage outfits and to my ‘interesting’ arty outfits is not the same and this surprises me for some reason!  Therefore, I am wondering if my expectations of people’s reactions is slightly warped perhaps?

You see, what I see on my computer and what I experience in the real world are two very different things.   You might say there are almost two separate worlds that I wear vintage in, one is the internet in vintage~friendly blog land and the other is my life; amongst real strangers with real judgements and preconceived ideas.

If you are wondering what I mean by saying that, let me say that this is how I see it:

In internet~blog land we read and visit blogs that we are interested in; so if you are into food you will read food blogs, and if you are into IT development you will read developer’s blogs.  It’s much the same with fashion blogs ~ if you are obsessed with runway fashion, you will read blogs that focus on that, and if perchance, you happen to like vintage fashion, those are the blogs you will focus on and immerse yourself in.

So everyday in your feed reader you will see gorgeous ladies dressed in 50s tea length dresses, 20s flapper outfits, 30s, 40s, 60s ~ you name it.  Every era, every style, every part of history is represented online.  And the thing about that is, you not only see bloggers themselves excited to wear these gorgeous clothes, but their readers eager to see them wear those clothes too ~ to me, these blogs are communities built around expressing yourself through your clothes. 

Therefore, in the online world vintage clothing is an acceptable mode of dress; and not just vintage, but pretty much any style of fashion distinct from main stream is okay.  I think that this acceptance creates an idea that dressing in vintage is a part of normal life.

But the thing is, in reality, that’s not the case.  Sure, anyone that wears vintage, or other subversive styles of dress, are really just ordinary people with different ways of expressing themselves.   However acceptable and ‘normal’ this is in the online world, it’s pretty unusual to see someone in everyday life wearing unordinary, un~everyday clothing!

I forget that.   I walk out in vintage clothing {my preferred style} and I forget that the majority of people around me may think that queer, bizarre or even odd. 

Because of that I find it easier to post pictures of my vintage outfits than actually wearing them, because in one world uncommon fashions are admired, but in the other, they are just plain weird.

Does anyone else have this problem when they make daring fashion choices?

xox,

bonita

Friday, December 24

Holiday Greetings from Depict This!



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     Hi everyone!  I hope you have, and have had, a marvellous Christmas!!   I wish you much happiness and laughter in this season of celebration, and all the very best for the upcoming year… 

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See you in 2011!!   

xox,

bonita

Saturday, December 11

Another Award?

Carys of La Ville Inconnue  is totally awesome ~ she’s so sweet and this is the third award she’s bestowed upon Depict This!!   It’s so nice when all your hard work is recognized, and I really appreciate it.  Thank you Carys.  ^__^

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I am going to pass it on to:

~ ♥ Amber Rose from Laughing with Broken Eyes ♥ ~

~ ♥ Jennifer from Jennifer’s Blog ♥ ~

~ ♥ Katie from Katiefoolery ♥ ~ 

~ ♥ L. from Only Half Dressed ♥ ~

~ ♥ Lulu from Lulu and the Locket ♥ ~

~ ♥ Miruku from Milk Tea  ♥ ~

~ ♥ Violet from Tales of an Ingénue ♥ ~

 

I really enjoy reading your blogs and I hope you don’t mind if I call some of you ‘friend’.  I like getting to know you all through your blogs and also through some of the lovely comments I get at Depict This!.  Isn’t the world wide web fantastic at promoting communities of people that would never otherwise meet? 

I think so!

xox,

bonita

Thursday, September 9

Blog Award x 2

I have been slack in posting about this award ~ I have had too much other stuff to blog about!! 

I received the award from the lovely Carys and Amelia of La Ville Inconnue ~ and I was so thrilled as I did not expect another blog award!

For this award, each person who receives it must answer the question:

'What do you like best about your blog?'

The thing that I like best about my blog is the chance to share things with a community of people I would never know otherwise.  The idea of a global community is actually more than just a theory when it comes to blogging. 

The fact that I can blog with people in the US, UK, Japan, Poland ~ you name it.  We can experience so many different cultures through blogs and I love that.  It’s like I am travelling to different places everyday. 

Lovely blogs I am passing this award on to.

~ ♥  Berrysprite ♥ ~

Amazing craft ideas and cute calendar desktop downloads available for free!  Holly is very generous to her readers.

~ ♥  Casey’s Elegant Musings ♥ ~

Beautiful vintage sewing inspiration and outfits to envy ~ but I think that she deserves it all because Casey is the nicest and of the most creative bloggers you’ll ever meet.

~ ♥  Craft My Soul ♥ ~

Cool DYI inspiration, craft ideas and fun ~ what more could you want?  

~ ♥  Keiko Lynn ♥ ~

Superb outfits, stunning makeup tutorials and beautiful photographs, Keiko Lynn’s blog is full of great stuff to look at.

~ ♥  Lulu Letty ♥ ~

I try not to sound too much like an obsessed fan girl with Maria, but really, her outfits are to die for….  And she is one of the sweetest, most amazing bloggers I have ever had the pleasure to meet over the web. 

~ ♥  Only Half Dressed ♥ ~

Lovely photographs, cute puppy dog and friendly posts ~ I really like visiting this blog! 

~ ♥  Strawberry Koi ♥ ~

Amazing surreal and fantasy vintage photography and art work ~ Aya has great inspiration of beautiful things on her blog.

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Also in other exciting news, I now have thirty followers!   I want to thank everyone for their support, so look out for my first giveaway coming when Depict This! hits the big five~o mark.  ^__^  ~ ♥

xox,

bonita

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